Attitude Can Save Your Life.

My father was the consummate positive thinker.  He knew, first-hand, the sick tendency of the human mind to dwell on the negative. He believed that, to counter that, and live life to the fullest, required a mental exertion in the opposite direction.  He also knew that the day would come when his sons would face difficulties and that our having a positive attitude would be a big key to moving through our disappointments successfully.

Probably, just like you, I wasn’t long into my life before I faced disappointment and failure.  As a child it was things like the loss of a loved pet, the death of a family and personal friend, and being hit by a car and spending a month-and-a-half in the hospital and healing.  As an adult, experiencing betrayal in business and personal relationships, death of family members, divorce and financial loss.  I give my dad a lot of the credit for my being able to walk through these experiences, generally, with a good attitude.  Once someone commented with amazement that I could joke about a terrible thing that I was going through.  My response was, “OK. But don’t you think that’s a lot better than killing myself?”

How can anyone start their day, with anything but a good attitude, after making thousands of cases of Corn Plops and Pow Juice?  (And it only took about ten minutes!)

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Corn Plops and Pow Juice

When I was about seven years old and my brother was 14, we would often join my father in the morning in his bathroom while he was shaving.  You see, Dad had created a fantasy factory for us.  Our imaginary company made a delicious cereal called Corn Plops and an equally yummy breakfast drink called Pow Juice.  Each of us had our designated jobs. Dad was our team leader. Working together our production line produced breakfast products at a pace that seemed like the speed of light. Invariably problems would occur in our processes and we would make corrections.  We didn’t want to disappoint our customers.   As the youngest, sometimes things would get pretty intense for me.  After all, the game was totally in our imaginations.  If I missed an assignment Dad got me back on track.  There was never any condemnation and each shift concluded with the words “job well done.” 

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“Is that your final answer?”

How You Can Have Effective Donor and Personal Relationships: “Is that your final answer?” (Conclusion)

There really is only one key to effective donor and personal relationships. Study and practice to become an accomplished listener.  If you do, it will be like music to their ears.