I have never fired a gun but I have observed that for a first-timer the biggest thing they experience is the recoil from the blast. Frankly, it can be painful if they don’t hold the weapon properly. Failure has its own recoil experience. Shock and fear are the most common expressions. We feel shock because we didn’t anticipate that we would fail and fear because pain makes us want to avoid that feeling in the future. Benjamin Franklin’s advice, “Do not fear mistakes. You will know failure. Continue to reach out.” When we fail we must not recoil, but instead fail-forward.
