What is a Life Purpose Coach Anyway?
A Life Purpose Coach is someone who is a trained master in creating
significant conversations. A coach asks questions, listens and then
helps you recognize what you believe to be true. Here’s an example: I
was recently coaching a person who said that they were very unhappy in
their career and wanted to do something to make peoples' lives better.
He spoke very lengthily and confusingly about what this new thing might
look like. As he spoke, it was as if he was walking through deep mud.
He was getting no where. All he could clearly articulate was that he
hated his present profession and couldn’t fathom going back to it and
working for company x, y or z. Then I asked him to talk about his
professional experience. His entire demeanor changed. He moved forward
in his chair, became articulate and engaged and started talking
passionately about what he would do regarding a specific opportunity. I
listened and then stopped him briefly and said, “You just spent 45
minutes vaguely talking about some new possibility and telling me how
you hated your profession of 30 years. Then when I asked you about your
profession you came alive and were articulate, passionate and focused.
It doesn’t sound to me like you hate your profession after all.”
He agreed and we conclude our coaching
session with him establishing to rejoin his profession. We also
reserved future time slots for additional coaching sessions so that he
can begin to define the next steps for pursuing his desire to eventually
transition into significant work.
You see, I didn’t really have to tell him
anything he didn’t already know. I just asked questions, listened and
repeated back what he had told me. That’s what a coach does. Coaches do
very little in overtly giving direction, but it takes the involvement
of a coach to enable most people to focus and move forward.